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Vizy Timer
Staying at the Dinner Table for a length everybody agreed to.
Your child is up and gone within ninety seconds, and family dinner has become a thing that happens to other households. Every attempt to enforce it turns the meal into a standoff.
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Why it works here
Why a visual timer helps with staying at the dinner table
Sitting still at a table is a sustained postural and sensory demand, not just a social rule. A timer makes the demand finite, which lets you ask for a short, achievable stretch instead of an open-ended expectation nobody is meeting.
You will recognize this if
- Your child eats standing up, or walking, and eats more that way.
- Sitting time is the fight rather than the food.
- Family meals have quietly stopped happening.
The setup
How to set it up for staying at the dinner table
Takes about five minutes. Use it as written, or keep only the steps your family needs. A short setup that gets used beats a complete one that gets abandoned in week two.
- 1 Start with a length your child already achieves, even two minutes
- 2 Put the timer on the table where everyone can see it
- 3 Let leaving be allowed the moment it ends, without comment
- 4 Add a minute every week or two rather than every meal
- 5 Offer a seat option that helps, a wobble cushion or feet on a box
- 6 Keep one predictable food on the table so the meal is not also a food challenge
The mistake most families make
Setting the target at what a typical family dinner looks like guarantees failure. Start below current ability and grow, rather than starting at the goal.
In the app
Built into the routine, not bolted onto it.
The Vizy Timer lives inside the same routine your child already follows, so staying at the dinner table is a step with a visible length rather than a separate tool somebody has to remember to open.
- Attach it to any step in any routine
- Works for pre-readers, gestalt language processors, and AAC users
- Same setup at home, at school, and in therapy
Set this up for your child.
Five minutes to build, and your child sees it every time staying at the dinner table comes around.
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Common questions
About staying at the dinner table
Why can my child not sit still at the table?
Sitting upright without moving is a postural demand that many autistic and ADHD children find genuinely tiring, and for some it competes directly with the attention needed to eat.
Should my child have to stay until everyone finishes?
That is a values question rather than a clinical one. If the goal is family connection, a short guaranteed stretch that actually happens beats a long expectation that produces conflict.
Does a wobble cushion actually help?
For plenty of children it does, because small movement satisfies the need to move without leaving the chair. It is worth trying before increasing the timer.
VizyPlan supports routines and communication at home and school. It is not a medical device and does not diagnose or treat any condition. Talk to your child's care team about clinical questions.
