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Vizy Countdown
Counting Down to a Tribunal or Hearing for the parent doing the waiting.
The hearing about your child's placement is in five weeks and it has occupied every quiet moment since the date arrived. This countdown is not really for your child.
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Why it works here
Why a visual countdown helps with counting down to a tribunal or hearing
A long wait for a decision that shapes your child's year is a genuine load on a parent, and it usually gets carried invisibly. Making the wait concrete, with tasks attached to specific days, converts an anxious open-ended stretch into a plan you can actually work through.
You will recognize this if
- You are thinking about the date constantly and preparing in bursts.
- The wait is affecting your sleep or your patience at home.
- You have not told your child anything, and are not sure whether to.
The setup
How to set it up for counting down to a tribunal or hearing
Takes about five minutes. Use it as written, or keep only the steps your family needs. A short setup that gets used beats a complete one that gets abandoned in week two.
- 1 Put the date on your own countdown and attach one preparation task per week
- 2 Decide deliberately what your child is told, and keep it minimal and factual
- 3 Protect your child's routine from the preparation entirely
- 4 Book support for yourself for the day itself, not just the outcome
- 5 Plan the day after the hearing as a low-demand day for the whole family
- 6 Set a date to revisit the plan afterward, whichever way it goes
The mistake most families make
Preparing continuously rather than in scheduled blocks means the wait consumes every evening, and children reliably pick up on that even when nothing is said.
In the app
Built into the routine, not bolted onto it.
The Vizy Countdown lives inside the same routine your child already follows, so counting down to a tribunal or hearing is a step with a visible length rather than a separate tool somebody has to remember to open.
- Attach it to any step in any routine
- Works for pre-readers, gestalt language processors, and AAC users
- Same setup at home, at school, and in therapy
Set this up for your child.
Five minutes to build, and your child sees it every time counting down to a tribunal or hearing comes around.
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Common questions
About counting down to a tribunal or hearing
Should my child know about a hearing?
Usually only in the most minimal factual terms, and often not at all depending on age. What matters more is protecting their routine from your preparation.
How do I stop it taking over?
Scheduled preparation blocks with a defined end, rather than working on it whenever the worry surfaces. The container is what makes it manageable.
What about the day itself?
Arrange childcare, arrange support for yourself, and keep the evening clear. It is a demanding day regardless of the outcome.
VizyPlan supports routines and communication at home and school. It is not a medical device and does not diagnose or treat any condition. Talk to your child's care team about clinical questions.
