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Vizy Timer
Waiting While a Parent Is Busy without eleven interruptions.
You are on a call you cannot reschedule and your child has appeared at your elbow four times in six minutes. Each time, the need is real to them and impossible for you.
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Why it works here
Why a visual timer helps with waiting while a parent is busy
In a minute is not a usable unit for a child who cannot feel time passing. A visible countdown answers the underlying question, which is not can I have you now but when can I have you, and the second question has an answer.
You will recognize this if
- Interruptions increase the moment you look busy.
- Your child accepts waiting when you give a number and not when you say soon.
- The requests are about access to you rather than the thing they are asking for.
The setup
How to set it up for waiting while a parent is busy
Takes about five minutes. Use it as written, or keep only the steps your family needs. A short setup that gets used beats a complete one that gets abandoned in week two.
- 1 Give a specific number and set the timer where your child can see it
- 2 Say what you will do together when it ends, and be specific
- 3 Set up one absorbing activity before you start, not after
- 4 Return exactly when it ends, even if you are not quite finished
- 5 Keep the first intervals short so waiting succeeds early
- 6 Agree an emergency signal so genuine needs still have a route
The mistake most families make
Running over because the call ran over is the thing that breaks it. Come back on time, then go back to the call if you must.
In the app
Built into the routine, not bolted onto it.
The Vizy Timer lives inside the same routine your child already follows, so waiting while a parent is busy is a step with a visible length rather than a separate tool somebody has to remember to open.
- Attach it to any step in any routine
- Works for pre-readers, gestalt language processors, and AAC users
- Same setup at home, at school, and in therapy
Set this up for your child.
Five minutes to build, and your child sees it every time waiting while a parent is busy comes around.
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Common questions
About waiting while a parent is busy
How long can a young child realistically wait?
Less than most of us assume, and it depends far more on predictability than on age. A guaranteed five minutes is easier than an uncertain two.
Should I explain what I am doing?
Briefly and concretely. I am on a work call until the timer ends gives your child something true to hold, where I am busy does not.
What if my child interrupts anyway?
Point at the timer rather than restating the rule. Redirecting to the visual keeps the timer as the authority instead of you.
VizyPlan supports routines and communication at home and school. It is not a medical device and does not diagnose or treat any condition. Talk to your child's care team about clinical questions.
